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Black or White: Negro & Post Racial America…

Sunday, January 24th, 2010

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The election of Barack Obama was predicted to have ushered in a new, post-racial society.  In this post-racial society, color or race would no longer matter.  Are we there yet?

Not so fast, I would say.  In the past year, we have witnessed the controversial arrest of Professor Henry Louis Gates, The Beer Summit, President Jimmy Carter’s comments on hostility toward President Obama, members of the Tea Part, and Harry Reid’s comments.  Race matters, and it matters even more in the type of post-racial America that I see.

I don’t see a post-racial America where racism no longer exists.  The truth of the matter is that racism will always exist as long as evil exists.  I do, however, see a post-racial America where minorities are on track to being the majority; and more Americans will no longer view themselves as simply “black” or “white.”  I see the rise of multi-ethnic groups.

A recent Time article brings up the issue of the term, “Negro,” being used on the U.S. Census (View the article here). The article discusses many changes that the U.S. Census will be testing with the 2010 Census.  One of the possible changes is allowing respondents to check more than one box for race and Hispanic origin. Also, those who check “black” or “white” will be allowed to write in more specific information.

For years, through the eyes of racism, one drop of black blood meant that you were black.  Blue eyes and 0.001% melanin?  Yep, you’re white.

But if this change is implemented in the 2010 Census, bi-racial children will no longer have to identify with one group.  People of Arab descent will have a voice.  German-Irish?  Write it in.  Afro-Cuban?  Come on down.  Korean mother and Afro-Mexican father?  You’re invited too.  It’s a racial smorgasbord!

I pose two questions: 1) What is your vision of a post-racial America?  2) What race(s)/ethic groups do you identify with?

Obama Accepts Nobel Prize

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

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This morning, on televisions across the U.S., Americans witnessed President Barack Obama accept the Nobel Peace Prize.  For this post, we’re posting the full transcript of the speech, and highlighting important points:

Your majesties, your royal highnesses, distinguished members of the Norwegian Nobel Committee, citizens of America and citizens of the world:

I receive this honor with deep gratitude and great humility. It is an award that speaks to our highest aspirations — that for all the cruelty and hardship of our world, we are not mere prisoners of fate. Our actions matter, and can bend history in the direction of justice.

And yet I would be remiss if I did not acknowledge the considerable controversy that your generous decision has generated. In part, this is because I am at the beginning, and not the end, of my labors on the world stage. Compared to some of the giants of history who have received this prize — Schweitzer and King; Marshall and Mandela — my accomplishments are slight. And then there are the men and women around the world who have been jailed and beaten in the pursuit of justice; those who toil in humanitarian organizations to relieve suffering; the unrecognized millions whose quiet acts of courage and compassion inspire even the most hardened of cynics. I cannot argue with those who find these men and women — some known, some obscure to all but those they help — to be far more deserving of this honor than I.

But perhaps the most profound issue surrounding my receipt of this prize is the fact that I am the commander in chief of a nation in the midst of two wars. One of these wars is winding down. The other is a conflict that America did not seek; one in which we are joined by forty-three other countries — including Norway — in an effort to defend ourselves and all nations from further attacks.

Still, we are at war, and I am responsible for the deployment of thousands of young Americans to battle in a distant land. Some will kill. Some will be killed. And so I come here with an acute sense of the cost of armed conflict — filled with difficult questions about the relationship between war and peace, and our effort to replace one with the other.

These questions are not new. War, in one form or another, appeared with the first man. At the dawn of history, its morality was not questioned; it was simply a fact, like drought or disease — the manner in which tribes and then civilizations sought power and settled their differences.

Over time, as codes of law sought to control violence within groups, so did philosophers, clerics and statesmen seek to regulate the destructive power of war. The concept of a “just war” emerged, suggesting that war is justified only when it meets certain preconditions: If it is waged as a last resort or in self-defense; if the forced used is proportional, and if, whenever possible, civilians are spared from violence.

For most of history, this concept of just war was rarely observed. The capacity of human beings to think up new ways to kill one another proved inexhaustible, as did our capacity to exempt from mercy those who look different or pray to a different God. Wars between armies gave way to wars between nations — total wars in which the distinction between combatant and civilian became blurred. In the span of 30 years, such carnage would twice engulf this continent. And while it is hard to conceive of a cause more just than the defeat of the Third Reich and the Axis powers, World War II was a conflict in which the total number of civilians who died exceeded the number of soldiers who perished.

In the wake of such destruction, and with the advent of the nuclear age, it became clear to victor and vanquished alike that the world needed institutions to prevent another World War. And so, a quarter century after the United States Senate rejected the League of Nations — an idea for which Woodrow Wilson received this prize — America led the world in constructing an architecture to keep the peace: a Marshall Plan and a United Nations, mechanisms to govern the waging of war, treaties to protect human rights, prevent genocide and restrict the most dangerous weapons.

In many ways, these efforts succeeded. Yes, terrible wars have been fought, and atrocities committed. But there has been no Third World War. The Cold War ended with jubilant crowds dismantling a wall. Commerce has stitched much of the world together. Billions have been lifted from poverty. The ideals of liberty, self-determination, equality and the rule of law have haltingly advanced. We are the heirs of the fortitude and foresight of generations past, and it is a legacy for which my own country is rightfully proud.

A decade into a new century, this old architecture is buckling under the weight of new threats. The world may no longer shudder at the prospect of war between two nuclear superpowers, but proliferation may increase the risk of catastrophe. Terrorism has long been a tactic, but modern technology allows a few small men with outsized rage to murder innocents on a horrific scale.

Moreover, wars between nations have increasingly given way to wars within nations. The resurgence of ethnic or sectarian conflicts; the growth of secessionist movements, insurgencies, and failed states; have increasingly trapped civilians in unending chaos. In today’s wars, many more civilians are killed than soldiers; the seeds of future conflict are sewn, economies are wrecked, civil societies torn asunder, refugees amassed and children scarred.

I do not bring with me today a definitive solution to the problems of war. What I do know is that meeting these challenges will require the same vision, hard work and persistence of those men and women who acted so boldly decades ago. And it will require us to think in new ways about the notions of just war and the imperatives of a just peace.

We must begin by acknowledging the hard truth that we will not eradicate violent conflict in our lifetimes. There will be times when nations — acting individually or in concert — will find the use of force not only necessary but morally justified.

I make this statement mindful of what Martin Luther King said in this same ceremony years ago — “Violence never brings permanent peace. It solves no social problem: it merely creates new and more complicated ones.” As someone who stands here as a direct consequence of Dr. King’s life’s work, I am living testimony to the moral force of nonviolence. I know there is nothing weak — nothing passive — nothing naive — in the creed and lives of Gandhi and King.

But as a head of state sworn to protect and defend my nation, I cannot be guided by their examples alone. I face the world as it is, and cannot stand idle in the face of threats to the American people. For make no mistake: Evil does exist in the world. A nonviolent movement could not have halted Hitler’s armies. Negotiations cannot convince al Qaeda’s leaders to lay down their arms. To say that force is sometimes necessary is not a call to cynicism — it is a recognition of history; the imperfections of man and the limits of reason.

I raise this point because in many countries there is a deep ambivalence about military action today, no matter the cause. At times, this is joined by a reflexive suspicion of America, the world’s sole military superpower.

Yet the world must remember that it was not simply international institutions — not just treaties and declarations — that brought stability to a post-World War II world. Whatever mistakes we have made, the plain fact is this: The United States of America has helped underwrite global security for more than six decades with the blood of our citizens and the strength of our arms. The service and sacrifice of our men and women in uniform has promoted peace and prosperity from Germany to Korea, and enabled democracy to take hold in places like the Balkans. We have borne this burden not because we seek to impose our will. We have done so out of enlightened self-interest — because we seek a better future for our children and grandchildren, and we believe that their lives will be better if other peoples’ children and grandchildren can live in freedom and prosperity.

So yes, the instruments of war do have a role to play in preserving the peace. And yet this truth must coexist with another — that no matter how justified, war promises human tragedy. The soldier’s courage and sacrifice is full of glory, expressing devotion to country, to cause and to comrades in arms. But war itself is never glorious, and we must never trumpet it as such.

So part of our challenge is reconciling these two seemingly irreconcilable truths — that war is sometimes necessary, and war is at some level an expression of human feelings. Concretely, we must direct our effort to the task that President Kennedy called for long ago. “Let us focus,” he said, “on a more practical, more attainable peace, based not on a sudden revolution in human nature but on a gradual evolution in human institutions.”

What might this evolution look like? What might these practical steps be?

To begin with, I believe that all nations — strong and weak alike — must adhere to standards that govern the use of force. I — like any head of state — reserve the right to act unilaterally if necessary to defend my nation. Nevertheless, I am convinced that adhering to standards strengthens those who do, and isolates — and weakens — those who don’t.

The world rallied around America after the 9/11 attacks, and continues to support our efforts in Afghanistan, because of the horror of those senseless attacks and the recognized principle of self-defense. Likewise, the world recognized the need to confront Saddam Hussein when he invaded Kuwait — a consensus that sent a clear message to all about the cost of aggression.

Furthermore, America cannot insist that others follow the rules of the road if we refuse to follow them ourselves. For when we don’t, our action can appear arbitrary, and undercut the legitimacy of future intervention — no matter how justified.

This becomes particularly important when the purpose of military action extends beyond self defense or the defense of one nation against an aggressor. More and more, we all confront difficult questions about how to prevent the slaughter of civilians by their own government, or to stop a civil war whose violence and suffering can engulf an entire region.

I believe that force can be justified on humanitarian grounds, as it was in the Balkans, or in other places that have been scarred by war. Inaction tears at our conscience and can lead to more costly intervention later. That is why all responsible nations must embrace the role that militaries with a clear mandate can play to keep the peace.

America’s commitment to global security will never waiver. But in a world in which threats are more diffuse, and missions more complex, America cannot act alone. This is true in Afghanistan. This is true in failed states like Somalia, where terrorism and piracy is joined by famine and human suffering. And sadly, it will continue to be true in unstable regions for years to come.

The leaders and soldiers of NATO countries — and other friends and allies — demonstrate this truth through the capacity and courage they have shown in Afghanistan. But in many countries, there is a disconnect between the efforts of those who serve and the ambivalence of the broader public. I understand why war is not popular. But I also know this: the belief that peace is desirable is rarely enough to achieve it. Peace requires responsibility. Peace entails sacrifice. That is why NATO continues to be indispensable. That is why we must strengthen UN and regional peacekeeping, and not leave the task to a few countries. That is why we honor those who return home from peacekeeping and training abroad to Oslo and Rome; to Ottawa and Sydney; to Dhaka and Kigali — we honor them not as makers of war, but as wagers of peace.

Let me make one final point about the use of force. Even as we make difficult decisions about going to war, we must also think clearly about how we fight it. The Nobel Committee recognized this truth in awarding its first prize for peace to Henry Dunant — the founder of the Red Cross, and a driving force behind the Geneva Conventions.

Where force is necessary, we have a moral and strategic interest in binding ourselves to certain rules of conduct. And even as we confront a vicious adversary that abides by no rules, I believe that the United States of America must remain a standard bearer in the conduct of war. That is what makes us different from those whom we fight. That is a source of our strength. That is why I prohibited torture. That is why I ordered the prison at Guantanamo Bay closed. And that is why I have reaffirmed America’s commitment to abide by the Geneva Conventions. We lose ourselves when we compromise the very ideals that we fight to defend. And we honor those ideals by upholding them not just when it is easy, but when it is hard.

I have spoken to the questions that must weigh on our minds and our hearts as we choose to wage war. But let me turn now to our effort to avoid such tragic choices, and speak of three ways that we can build a just and lasting peace.

First, in dealing with those nations that break rules and laws, I believe that we must develop alternatives to violence that are tough enough to change behavior — for if we want a lasting peace, then the words of the international community must mean something. Those regimes that break the rules must be held accountable. Sanctions must exact a real price. Intransigence must be met with increased pressure — and such pressure exists only when the world stands together as one.

One urgent example is the effort to prevent the spread of nuclear weapons, and to seek a world without them. In the middle of the last century, nations agreed to be bound by a treaty whose bargain is clear: all will have access to peaceful nuclear power; those without nuclear weapons will forsake them; and those with nuclear weapons will work toward disarmament. I am committed to upholding this treaty. It is a centerpiece of my foreign policy. And I am working with President Medvedev to reduce America and Russia’s nuclear stockpiles.

But it is also incumbent upon all of us to insist that nations like Iran and North Korea do not game the system. Those who claim to respect international law cannot avert their eyes when those laws are flouted. Those who care for their own security cannot ignore the danger of an arms race in the Middle East or East Asia. Those who seek peace cannot stand idly by as nations arm themselves for nuclear war.

The same principle applies to those who violate international law by brutalizing their own people. When there is genocide in Darfur; systematic rape in Congo; or repression in Burma — there must be consequences. And the closer we stand together, the less likely we will be faced with the choice between armed intervention and complicity in oppression.

This brings me to a second point — the nature of the peace that we seek. For peace is not merely the absence of visible conflict. Only a just peace based upon the inherent rights and dignity of every individual can truly be lasting.

It was this insight that drove drafters of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights after the Second World War. In the wake of devastation, they recognized that if human rights are not protected, peace is a hollow promise.

And yet all too often, these words are ignored. In some countries, the failure to uphold human rights is excused by the false suggestion that these are Western principles, foreign to local cultures or stages of a nation’s development. And within America, there has long been a tension between those who describe themselves as realists or idealists — a tension that suggests a stark choice between the narrow pursuit of interests or an endless campaign to impose our values.

I reject this choice. I believe that peace is unstable where citizens are denied the right to speak freely or worship as they please; choose their own leaders or assemble without fear. Pent up grievances fester, and the suppression of tribal and religious identity can lead to violence. We also know that the opposite is true. Only when Europe became free did it finally find peace. America has never fought a war against a democracy, and our closest friends are governments that protect the rights of their citizens. No matter how callously defined, neither America’s interests — nor the world’s –are served by the denial of human aspirations.

So even as we respect the unique culture and traditions of different countries, America will always be a voice for those aspirations that are universal. We will bear witness to the quiet dignity of reformers like Aung Sang Suu Kyi; to the bravery of Zimbabweans who cast their ballots in the face of beatings; to the hundreds of thousands who have marched silently through the streets of Iran. It is telling that the leaders of these governments fear the aspirations of their own people more than the power of any other nation. And it is the responsibility of all free people and free nations to make clear to these movements that hope and history are on their side

Let me also say this: The promotion of human rights cannot be about exhortation alone. At times, it must be coupled with painstaking diplomacy. I know that engagement with repressive regimes lacks the satisfying purity of indignation. But I also know that sanctions without outreach — and condemnation without discussion — can carry forward a crippling status quo. No repressive regime can move down a new path unless it has the choice of an open door.

In light of the Cultural Revolution’s horrors, Nixon’s meeting with Mao appeared inexcusable — and yet it surely helped set China on a path where millions of its citizens have been lifted from poverty, and connected to open societies. Pope John Paul’s engagement with Poland created space not just for the Catholic Church, but for labor leaders like Lech Walesa. Ronald Reagan’s efforts on arms control and embrace of perestroika not only improved relations with the Soviet Union, but empowered dissidents throughout Eastern Europe. There is no simple formula here. But we must try as best we can to balance isolation and engagement; pressure and incentives, so that human rights and dignity are advanced over time.

Third, a just peace includes not only civil and political rights — it must encompass economic security and opportunity. For true peace is not just freedom from fear, but freedom from want.

It is undoubtedly true that development rarely takes root without security; it is also true that security does not exist where human beings do not have access to enough food, or clean water, or the medicine they need to survive. It does not exist where children cannot aspire to a decent education or a job that supports a family. The absence of hope can rot a society from within.

And that is why helping farmers feed their own people — or nations educate their children and care for the sick — is not mere charity. It is also why the world must come together to confront climate change. There is little scientific dispute that if we do nothing, we will face more drought, famine and mass displacement that will fuel more conflict for decades. For this reason, it is not merely scientists and activists who call for swift and forceful action — it is military leaders in my country and others who understand that our common security hangs in the balance.

Agreements among nations. Strong institutions. Support for human rights. Investments in development. All of these are vital ingredients in bringing about the evolution that President Kennedy spoke about. And yet, I do not believe that we will have the will, or the staying power, to complete this work without something more — and that is the continued expansion of our moral imagination; an insistence that there is something irreducible that we all share.

As the world grows smaller, you might think it would be easier for human beings to recognize how similar we are; to understand that we all basically want the same things; that we all hope for the chance to live out our lives with some measure of happiness and fulfillment for ourselves and our families.

And yet, given the dizzying pace of globalization, and the cultural leveling of modernity, it should come as no surprise that people fear the loss of what they cherish about their particular identities — their race, their tribe, and perhaps most powerfully their religion. In some places, this fear has led to conflict. At times, it even feels like we are moving backwards. We see it in Middle East, as the conflict between Arabs and Jews seems to harden. We see it in nations that are torn asunder by tribal lines.

Most dangerously, we see it in the way that religion is used to justify the murder of innocents by those who have distorted and defiled the great religion of Islam, and who attacked my country from Afghanistan. These extremists are not the first to kill in the name of God; the cruelties of the Crusades are amply recorded. But they remind us that no Holy War can ever be a just war. For if you truly believe that you are carrying out divine will, then there is no need for restraint — no need to spare the pregnant mother, or the medic, or even a person of one’s own faith. Such a warped view of religion is not just incompatible with the concept of peace, but the purpose of faith — for the one rule that lies at the heart of every major religion is that we do unto others as we would have them do unto us.

Adhering to this law of love has always been the core struggle of human nature. We are fallible. We make mistakes, and fall victim to the temptations of pride, and power, and sometimes evil. Even those of us with the best intentions will at times fail to right the wrongs before us.

But we do not have to think that human nature is perfect for us to still believe that the human condition can be perfected. We do not have to live in an idealized world to still reach for those ideals that will make it a better place. The nonviolence practiced by men like Gandhi and King may not have been practical or possible in every circumstance, but the love that they preached — their faith in human progress — must always be the North Star that guides us on our journey.

For if we lose that faith — if we dismiss it as silly or naive; if we divorce it from the decisions that we make on issues of war and peace — then we lose what is best about humanity. We lose our sense of possibility. We lose our moral compass.

Like generations have before us, we must reject that future. As Dr. King said at this occasion so many years ago, “I refuse to accept despair as the final response to the ambiguities of history. I refuse to accept the idea that the ‘isness’ of man’s present nature makes him morally incapable of reaching up for the eternal ‘oughtness’ that forever confronts him.”

So let us reach for the world that ought to be — that spark of the divine that still stirs within each of our souls. Somewhere today, in the here and now, a soldier sees he’s outgunned but stands firm to keep the peace. Somewhere today, in this world, a young protester awaits the brutality of her government, but has the courage to march on. Somewhere today, a mother facing punishing poverty still takes the time to teach her child, who believes that a cruel world still has a place for his dreams.

Let us live by their example. We can acknowledge that oppression will always be with us, and still strive for justice. We can admit the intractability of depravation, and still strive for dignity. We can understand that there will be war, and still strive for peace. We can do that — for that is the story of human progress; that is the hope of all the world; and at this moment of challenge, that must be our work here on Earth.

WHEN KEEPING IT REAL GOES WRONG…

Friday, November 20th, 2009

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http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/11/19/walmart.trial/index.html

I believe the appropriate way to start this post off is with a famous quote from the Chappelle Show:  “I DON’T LIKE PEOPLE PLAYING ON MY PHONE!”

With that said, I”m sure most of you by now have heard about the Heather Ellis case.  Here’s the Cliffnotes version of what happened:  She was in Kennett, Missouri, visiting relatives while home from college.  She went to Walmart with her cousin.  When they were ready to check out, her cousin got in one line.  She got in another line.  Ellis saw that her cousin’s line was moving faster, and walked over and cut in line with her cousin.  People were mad.  Words were exchanged.  The police were called.  Now she is facing 15 years if convicted. 

Your favorite bloggers on The Conference Call decided to discuss the issue:

Wood: How about this nonsense???

C-Mac: I dunno.  Which part do you think is nonsense?

Kev:  Uh ohhhhhh… I see a potential blog topic brewing!  LOL. 

C-Mac: 1.  Does racism exist?  Still?  Yes.

2.  Are you ever going to get away with assaulting police officers?  No.

3.  Is line cutting at Wal-Mart some sh!t?  Yes.  And I’ve called people out for it.  But I called them inconsiderate A-holes.

4.  Can an entire group of people all tell the same wrong story?  Yes.

5  Should she have plead it out for probation as opposed to facing a felony and going to jail for years?  When there’s physical evidence of assault?  Yes.  All day, every time.

Kev: It’s her word against the townspeople and policemen.  I usually give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but watch Rosewood, Mississippi Burning, or Three Little Girls… heck, just read To Kill a Mockingbird and you know a black man’s word against a white man or woman’s word is no good in smaller, racially aggressive towns.  Also, if I’m in one line, and Wood is in another line, then I’m going to go over to his line all day, everyday if it’s moving faster.  It happens all of the time.  I think she was harassed and those doing the harassing caught her on a bad day.  She was a college student visiting her relatives.  I’m sure any other black person who actually lived in that town would have kept their head down, said, “Yes, sir,” and just kept it moving. 

C-Mac: I don’t disagree with any of that, except the cutting.  Let’s be specific.  Debbie and I get in different lines.  We have one set of purchases.  Ok, you diversified your risk.  As opposed to me and Wood, picking two lines, mine goes faster, so I let him cut, buy his stuff, then I buy mine.  That’s not the same.

Other than that, I totally agree with you.  She was down at Xavier and probably had a chip on her shoulder, b/c she did in fact come from a town full of racist a-holes. 

YOU WILL NEVER ASSAULT THE COPS AND WIN.  And if you can plea it and go on with your life far far from this backwoods place, I think you do it as opposed to going on trial for assaulting cops.  It’s not a good charge to face, even for a cause, a cause that you can’t win.  You can’t change people that ignorant, if they truly are ignorant enough that every single one of them if telling the same untrue story…your win is getting out, being successful, and living in harmony with non-ignorant neighbors.

Kev: We have to agree to disagree on the cutting thing.  One set of purchases?  Fine.  If it’s two different purchases?  Still fine.  How?  I’m letting you get in front of me.  You didn’t cut in front of the person behind me.  I’m letting you cut in front of me.  It’s no different than me letting a nice, elderly lady go in front of me.  Are the other people in line going to call the cops and Riverdance on my head for doing that? 

I agree about the cops thing.  Maybe that’s why she was born in this generation rather than in 1932.  She wouldn’t have made it apparently.  LOL.

Rice: I don’t have a problem with two sets of purchases and letting someone cut, but that does not sound like what happened here.  The way I read the story Ellis, took it upon herself to join her cousin in the faster moving line and did not cut in front of them, but cut in front of the person behind the cousin and then proceeded to push another patron’s items back along the conveyor belt to make room for her purchases (very rude and uncool).  Whatever happened afterward, the fact that her voice was heard at the back of the Wal-Mart before the police were called doesn’t really tell me that she handled the situation well from the off.  I imagine that the officers, hearing the situation before they arrived were probably predisposed to “aggressively” handle the situation.  That being said, it sounds like this town has had racial issues, and perhaps continues to, but this situation began with stoopid issues, not racial ones.  It is possible that racial issues exacerbated the problem, but until we have more of the evidence I cannot make a determination that I am fully comfortable saying is 100% correct.

Wood: Again this is all Blah, Blah, Blah.  She was wrong for being belligerent.  The cops were wrong for overreacting.  But guess whose going to lose when there are two wrongs?  So she should have taken the plea and shut up.  I bet she will really see it that way when she’s Big Bertha’s girlfriend for 15 years.

C-Mac: She should have taken the deal not because there were two wrongs and she is the black person.  She should have taken the plea b/c she assaulted the police.  People can SAY whatever they want, and they’re wrong for it a lot of the time.  But you can’t hit people.  You REALLY can’t hit cops.  It’s a universally unwinable proposition.

Kev, you can do math…

I’m in line.  I’m behind someone, and in front of someone.  If you cut in front of me, you cut in front of everyone behind me.  Most people wouldn’t make an ordeal out of it, but that’s what you did.  There is no difference whatsoever to the person behind me if you cut in front of me or them.

And yes, nice elderly people get a pass.  Young able men that are just in a big d*mn hurry, not so much.  Will I let the mom wagging 4 kids around, trying to buy one bottle of children’s Tylenol?  Yes.  The stoner looking dude with a bag of Doritos and 14 Totino’s pizzas?  Not so much.

Kev: I knew you would come with that logic.  My perception is that it’s my spot and I can let anyone go in front of me if I choose to do so. 

C-Mac: Ok, I’m overly logical…but I added in the compassionate part too!  :o P

Your spot isn’t a possession, it’s part of a system…a larger system of commerce.  There’s a social contract.  Apparently we don’t all feel the same way.  But that’s cool.  Like I said, I’m not likely to get bent out of shape about it in most cases.  But there’s the occasional person that blatantly abuses it, and that’s not cool.  I’m also a lot more easy going than I used to be, probably a product of age and having real issues to deal with in life.  The more big stuff you have, the easier it becomes to not sweat the small stuff.

Kev: Good breakdown.  Understood.  I just like to take that logic, and apply it to other situations.  There’s always room for abuse and someone is always going to be mad.

Should the driver behind you with road rage, already 10 minutes late & working on his 3rd strike at work, shoot you or the person you let get in front of you?

C-Mac: No, and point taken.

On the other hand, when we let people over we’re letting them get to an exit, onto a roadway from an exit, etc…  There’s 2000+ lbs of metal moving very quickly, and there’s a sense of urgency, esp. if you’re literally running out of lane.

Don’t be 10 minutes late w/ 2 strikes, or know that there are consequences…and talk your way out of them.

The consensus: We agree to disagree on cutting in line.  When you catch the wrong person on the wrong day, they can get belligerent.  With that said, never hit a cop… and especially if you’re black!

LATE BREAKING UPDATE!!!

Wood: 

http://www.arkansasonline.com/news/2009/nov/19/man-accused-squeegee-attack-conway/

 A Conway man is due in court on charges he used a gas pump squeegee to hit another man during a fight over who was first in line at a gas pump.

Twenty-one-year-old Hector Chavez is to be arraigned Friday in Faulkner County Circuit Court on a second-degree battery charge.

A Conway police report says the victim told officers that he was waiting in line at a gas pump when Chavez cut in front of him. The victim — who was not identified — said he confronted Chavez with the squeegee and swung at him before Chavez took the squeegee and began beating him with it.

A phone listing could not be found for Chavez and it wasn’t clear whether he had an attorney.

CMac:  Because he successfully defended himself?  I guess he could have taken it away and then threatened the guy, but seriously, dude got what he deserved…

 

Kev:  Ironically, it starts with cutting in line. ;o)

 

 CMac:  Dude, I’m telling you, line cutting is LINE STEPPING.  Don’t be a habitual line-stepper.  It’s not ok.  You may get arrested.  Even if you’re the victim of racism, or even if you’re attacked by a dweeb with a squeegee.

What Defines You?

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

I was having a conversation with some friends about sexuality and gender.  We were discussing it in reference to Chaz Bono and his/her recent sex change.  This was the main question to our discussion… Would you have a relationship with a post-op transexual, pre-op transexual, or do you view gender in a more holistic sense as mind and body both being in their orginal form?
Well to answer that question I have to pose another question.  What do you feel determines your gender?  There have been countless stories of people who were born physically men who said mentally they have always thought, felt, and lived like a woman.  The only thing that has kept them from being thought of that way was their genitalia.  And vice versa for women.  Then there are people out there that would say that you are born with a certain set of sex organs and that is what you are.  You wanting to be different than that is just a sinful nature.
So I ask you.  What do you think sex is determined by?  Your physical self or your mental self?  And with that answer would you have a relationship with someone that started off as one sex physically and went through a transformation to another?
I say for myself.. I would have to have someone that was a woman from birth both mentally and physically.  Can’t even give you reasons why at this point.  But that would be my preference.

Holy Wars: Murder Has No Religion

Tuesday, November 10th, 2009

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I was reading on Cnn.com yesterday, and came across a very interesting commentary by Arsalan Iftikhar, an international human rights lawyer.  Iftikhar had some interesting thoughts recenty tragedy that occurred in Fort Hood, Texas, and the aftermath in the media.  Here is his opinion on the matter:

Most of the world’s 1.57 billion Muslims know that the Holy Quran states quite clearly that, “Anyone who kills a human being … it shall be as though he has killed all of mankind. … If anyone saves a life, it shall be as though he has saved the lives of all of mankind.”

Accordingly, it should come as little surprise to any reasonable observer that when Army Maj. Nidal Malik Hasan recently committed his shocking acts of mass murder at Fort Hood, Texas, America’s Muslim community of over 7 million felt an added sense of horror and sadness at this senseless attack against the brave men and women of the U.S. armed forces.

True to form, many conservative media pundits wasted little time in pointing to reports that Hasan had said “Allahu Akbar” (Arabic for “God is great”) at the start of his murderous rampage. News coverage continuously showed the looping convenience store black-and-white videotape footage of Hasan wearing traditional white Islamic garb.

First of all, someone simply saying “Allahu Akbar” while committing an act of mass murder no more makes their criminal act “Islamic” than a Christian uttering the “Hail Mary” while murdering an abortion medical provider, or someone chanting “Onward, Christian Soldiers” while bombing a gay nightclub, would make their act “Christian” in nature.

Simply put; murder is murder and has no religion whatsoever.

Professor Juan Cole of the University of Michigan once wrote that, “One most certainly does insult Muslims by tying their religion to movements such as terrorism or fascism. Muslims perceive a double standard in this regard: Timothy McVeigh and Terry Nichols would never be called ‘Christian terrorists’ even though they were in close contact with the Christian Identity Movement. No one would speak of Christo-fascism or Judeo-fascism as the Republican[s] … speak of Islam-o-fascism. … [Many people also] point out that [it was] persons of Christian heritage [who] invented fascism, not Muslims.”

According to Pentagon statistics, there were over 3,400 American Muslims serving in the active-duty military as of April 2008. The Wall Street Journal reported that many officials believe “the actual number of [American] Muslim soldiers may be at least 10,000 higher than the Pentagon statistics.”

Thus, with thousands of patriotic American Muslim women and men proudly serving in our United States Army in places like Iraq and Afghanistan, perhaps it would behoove our army leaders to consider sending a strong message of American unity by appointing an American Muslim to be a part of the prosecution team against Hasan.

This would help show that the mass murders allegedly committed by Hasan have nothing to do with the teachings of our religion.

The United States Army can send a resounding message to all Americans and the rest of the world that the social fabric of our country will never become unraveled by murderous (and irreligious) gun-wielding felons — whether it is a Muslim in Fort Hood, Texas, or a non-Muslim on a shooting rampage in an Orlando, Florida, high-rise less than a day later.

By appointing a multicultural (and multireligious) legal prosecution team made up of military lawyers of all races and religions, we can set a good example to show the rest of the world that our American legal justice system is truly equal for all people, regardless of their race, religion or socioeconomic status.

The larger point is that Muslims in America completely disavow and wash our hands of any acts of murder (or terrorism) claimed to be performed in the name of our religion. Acts of mass murder, regardless of their time or place, are simply ungodly criminal acts that have no religion whatsoever.

Do you agree or disagree with Iftikhar?  Did he make good points?  Do you believe the tragedy in Ft. Hood had religious ties? 

Healthcare Bill Leaps One Hurdle…

Monday, November 9th, 2009

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http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2009/11/08/cao-says-he-put-his-districts-needs-over-his-partys-wishes/#more-76984

The widely criticized, debated, discussed, and touted healthcare bill that President Obama has been pushing for the majority of this year has passed in the House of Representatives.  The final vote was 220-215, with one, lone Republican vote.  The vote came from Representative Ahn “Joseph” Cao of Louisiana. 

What I find interesting is why Rep. Cao said he voted for the bill.  Sure, he may have had some persuasion from President Obama, doing his best Lyndon Johnson rendition, who called Cao beforehand to ask for his support.  But the ultimate reason Cao said he voted for the bill is because he wanted to put his district’s needs over his party’s wishes. 

“I felt last night’s decision was the proper decision for my district even though it was not the popular decision for my party,” Cao, a first-term representative from Louisiana’s traditionally Democratic 2nd District, told CNN.

“A lot of my constituents are uninsured, a lot of them are poor,” Cao said. “It was the right decision for the people of my district.”

A lot of Blue-Dog/Conservative Democrats have not supported the healthcare bill for the same reason:  People in their district didn’t support it.  Whether you’re personally for or against the healthcare bill, I find it interesting that representatives are actually representing the people… rather than voting along political party lines. 

The bill is now in the hands of the Senate. 

Do you feel that Rep. Cao did the right thing?  Should he have voted for what his party wanted?  What would you do in that situation if you were a Representative or Senator?  How would you vote? 

Adoption Limits

Thursday, November 5th, 2009

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http://www.arkansasonline.com/news/2009/nov/05/adoption-limit-still-worries-beebe-20091105/

To paraphrase the article, Gov. Mike Beebe is unhappy about the vote to limit adopting children to married couples only. 

I think I’m with the Gov. on this one.   Your ability to love a child and show them a good life should not be dependent on your sexual orientation or marital status.  There are some people now that are married that should have their kids taken from them.  But the people have spoken and it is now law and we have to abide by that.

I guess my questions for today are:  

Do you feel  its right to ban homosexual and unmarried couples from adopting? 

Also, do you think this is something that should be voted on by the voters or something that should have been left up to the legislature?   It seems to me someone adopting a child has no direct affect on another person.  The only affect I can see is that you don’t have to pay as much in taxes for foster care.  That should make some people happy.

-Trillionaire Wood aka Wood the Great

Dear Women (My Ode to Thee) Pt. 1

Thursday, October 29th, 2009

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Dear Women,

My dear, dear women (sigh)… why do you do the things you do?

You walk out the house with that outfit on… cleavage popping out of your turtleneck… I try my best to keep eye contact, yet you take it as I’m trying to disrespect

Dear women,

My dear, dear women (sigh)… why do you do the things you do?

Your derriere is as wide as all out doors… daisy-dukes-spandex all over your butt… you walk in front of me, pulling your baby-tee down… and think that’s supposed to cover it up?

Dear women… my dear, dear women…

I woke up early in a good mood today… was feeling friendly so I said, “Hi.” … She translated it to, “Can I get your number?”… She thinks she’s a ten, but is just a five…

Dear women… my dear, dear women… SMH

-Kev

What ever happened to “Howdy?”

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

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Something C-Mac said in one of his comments Monday struck a chord with me.  I pose the question “What is wrong with getting personal with people?”

I was not born South of the Mason Dixon line, but I like to say that I got there (to Texas) as fast as I could.  I was raised in Texas and while the South has been much maligned for their mistreatment of people (mostly people of color) and rightly so in many cases, there used to be a sense of politeness that I fear has been homogenized out of Southern society.  In this I feel that we have failed to keep the best of our traditions while rejecting the worst.

I know that I may get flamed for bringing this up, but there is a tradition at Texas A&M University (I attended briefly) simply known as “Howdy!”  When I walked across campus my freshman year I was not met with averted glances or ignored completely.  Almost without fail every student I passed would say “Howdy!”  It seems a little thing, but it seems to me those little things are the kinds of things I’m beginning to miss the most as our society and technology increasingly isolates us from one another.  As misanthropic as I can be at times those little things make me think that there is hope for us yet.  A birthday greeting on facebook, a “friend request” from someone you knew years ago, or a random IM conversation with an old friend all of these things usually elicit a smile from me, but I think that sometimes we begin to feel so connected to the people “in our lives” through technology that we overlook all of the people who could be in our lives.  More and more I walk through the store or (God forbid) the mall and fall into the now accepted practice of avoiding eye contact and quickly retreating to my own little world.  Why does it have to be that way?  Didn’t there used to be a saying “There are no strangers, only friends we haven’t met yet?”  I know that there are sick people in this world and I know I don’t necessarily want to be “connected” to them, but I can’t help but feeling that if everyone felt more connected to each other we, collectively, might begin to suppress many of the impulses we are more likely to indulge privately without the intervention of an over reaching government.

Growing up my parents didn’t feel that they had to have their own eyes on me all the time because the other parents in the neighborhood were sure to turn me in for acting a fool as well as to keep an eye on all of us as we rode, ran, and played.  This didn’t happen through osmosis.  It happened because people used to take banana bread to the new neighbor and get to know the people that they came into contact with.  We spent the night with the kid down the street and Mom and Dad were able to watch the kinds of movies they didn’t want to expose us to.  Kids played football in the yard shot each other with Nerf guns (or pointed fingers), built forts with cardboard boxes that disintegrated the next time it rained.  If we were lucky there was someone with some 2×4’s and plywood and a parent who didn’t care that the corner of their back yard housed a ramshackle hut that looked like it was built by a couple of 10 yr olds.  None of this just happened, but it did just happen.  Just by introducing themselves our parents created connections with people they came to trust.  They didn’t always agree idealistically or politically, but shared meals with perfect strangers who became friends.  It seems to me now we have to create excuses to connect to people.  We pre-qualify new friends or romantic interests by checking out their online profiles and gauging their fitness to become part of our circle, and we guard our circles vigilantly.

I am as guilty as anyone of this.  I go to work, I go to school, I go straight home, and often I only physically talk to people if I must.  I know that I am coming off as a bit of a curmudgeon, and as the ranking “old timer” around here I can deal with that.  I’m not trying to say that technology is bad, or that our privacy is something that we should sacrifice, neither am I trying to say “it was so much better back in the good ole days.”  What I am saying is that even in our technological connectedness there is too much distance between us.  I would be willing to bet that everyone who reads this lives within a hundred yards of someone they’ve never said as much as “Howdy!” to.

You won’t believe what I SAW (6)!

Saturday, October 24th, 2009

 

(NOT A REVIEW, NO SPOILERS)

First off, let me say that we all have guilty pleasures…little indulgences that we’re not particularly proud of and wouldn’t want the world to know about per se. I’ll confess – I feel compelled to go see the Saw movies, in the theater, even though we’re up to 6 now, with 7 in pre-production. I know they’re bound to be gore fests with a mediocre plot line, but a compulsion is what it is.

So I’m out with my wife after dinner for a little romantic film about human torture and morality, and at the end, I’m leaving the theater and I trip over someone. I’m not clumsy in the least, admittedly it was still a bit dark, but not to the extent that it inhibited my ability to see. No, dear readers, I tripped over this person because I didn’t see him…because I looked right over his head…because he was four feet tall, and about 10 years old, and was there with his mom. Oddly, I also noted kids of about 5 and 7 at the LAST Saw movie, also with mom. Frankly, I’m not sure I was old enough to see this film. I don’t scare easily, and I work in an emergency room overnight several nights a week – I’ve seen some gruesome things – but I was still tense in parts. When this kid turns into a little serial killer or goes to school and starts screaming M-Fer at his classmates, mom shouldn’t be the least bit surprised. Was the kid being punished for something?!? This kid probably wasn’t even eating solid foods when the first Saw movie hit theaters!!! Not to mention that any parent could claim they didn’t know what to expect…it’s Saw 6! The SIXTH installment. If you don’t know what’s going to happen, you’re certainly not in the loop enough to drop $9.25 a ticket to check it out.

I’m not usually one for telling people how to live their lives or raise their children, but I’m just as entitled to my opinion as these parents are apparently entitled to scar their childrens’ psyches. I don’t have children of my own sadly, but I certainly wouldn’t want them watching a film of this graphic nature at such a young age. They should be seeing Cloudy With A Chance Of Meatballs or something…it’s 3-D, right?

Should we step in and start making decisions for parents when they are seemingly unwilling or unable to make reasonable choices for their kids? I’m not saying that we start teaching Sex Ed in Kindergarten or anything radical of that nature. Jeff and I had a day long argument about whether Plan B should be available over the counter without a prescription, and whether a 16 year old girl should have to get a parent to go get the emergency birth control. I argued better they get the pill and the parents not be involved than for an already sexually active girl to be so afraid to face her parents that she waits until it’s too late, forcing even more complicated “adult” decisions to be made. Jeff argued that he didn’t want to take parents out of the loop. What about Saw, and rated R movies in general? Should Saw be NC-17 to keep the children of brain dead parents out? Can we change R to “no one under 17 admitted with or without their parents?” I think maybe we should.

-CMac

P.S. The Plan B debate was one that the 4 of us had via email prior to The Conference Call. If there’s any interest, I’d be happy to force the other 3 to rehash the argument for my your amusement intellectual stimulation.